Whenever you want to grow need to participate/nominate in more or different events

Whenever you want to grow need to participate/nominate in more or different events.

Once you are grown up, the participation going to be less (addressing the events less) and it is very important to you because your paricipation requires a discussion/strategy only on important events.

The important events creates more responsibility for you to make them successful.

When you want to grow you need to spend more time learning and getting experinced. Once you grow up you don't have time to spend with others.

Concentration and continuation of your work is the way to success.